Tickling! some abnormal things become normal on this awkward world!

        it's hurt me when some person try to tell his couple that he loves her so much! but after that I heard that they got MBA!...it's disaster... I mean, she was pregnant without she wanted it.. after she's pregnant they got married, I bet the reason they get marriage is to keep self imaging to the other not for their baby! they aren't human..
       why something happen too screwed?? too fast.. too awkward.. why they can't run their love normally, just sharing about their life story everyday, get launch or dinner together.. it's a simple thing, but if you do it with the one who you loved, it will be really awesome.. I mean, if you love somebody it doesn't mean you can show up ur lust to ur couple... IT'S WORST... I mean, come on please, appreciate what's love means to be.. it's different with lust.. of course!..
       do you know, if now you're in the middle of special relationship with anybody out of marriage.. Please do it as a normal couple before marriage, DON'T do something that forbidden.!! I can't force you to stop loving him/her.. but please listen to ur brain, THINKING that if you do it too fast, it will be screw your life, your couple, your family and everything that related to you..
       I love baby so much.. but it's so sad if a baby have to born that his/her parents didn't want them.. it's hurt me so much..please, see them as a pure human without any sin, a baby have a heart...

       when I am in Senior high school, I have a friend, he told me, that his couple was pregnant, and he wanted to do abortion, suddenly I cried so loud.. you know, I can't let somebody kill anybody else.. it's so mean.. on that moment, I've just know that the world is so cruel.. it's a reality things that happen to me!... I've to do something.. EVERY SINGLE DAY I convience him to don't kill his baby.. the baby have right to get their life.. the baby have no fault.. it's their parents fault, and their parents have to take a responsibillity about their life.. beside that my friends was hurt their self, he try to suicide everyday, but he was too scared.. I told him, to tell his couple's parents.. and marry her.. Alhamdulillah, he listened to me.. he marriage her, the baby was born,.. after that.. it was 3 years ago.. and I don't know about him anymore.. that's unforgettable experience..

           I love saving people's life... I love to be human... if you think that you are human, please understand about what's love means to be deeply.. and you will see, love isn't lust.. love is something pure, natural, sincere, responsibillity, giving, and care.. Love will never screwed up your life, but Love will guide you to your dreams and hope..

What Does a Women Want?

"The great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is 'What does a woman want?'"

-From Sigmund Freud

What do we want? We even don't know about that.. but over all, I have a big Point what we really want to...:

1. Women want to be cherish by everyone..

2. Women want to be love by everyone..

3. Women want to be adore by everyone..
4. Women want to feel save by around her.

5. Women want to be understand by you!

it's easy right?...

women is really like to talking about anything that happen in her life today, she want to share it with you, want to discuss with you...we really need someone who could listen,,,

we get period every single month, 3days before period, our mood is screwed up! we realize about that, but we can't hold it on, so be patient, fullfill our needed, be melow, and keep straight to us, ok?!

what we like when we were in our period :

a. listen a good music..

b. watch a good movies, especially the romance one, we really need to be crying.. don't feel that guilty, sometime we think that we really need to cry without any make sense reason..

c. have a good snack, our apettite is high on those time!
d. read a good book, it's one of the way to make we cry without any logically reason..

FORBIDDEN THINGS TO DO BY MEN if you didn't want to make we MAD, and get CRAZY are :

a. LIE

b. CHEAT

c. INDIFFERENT

d. MISSUNDERSTAND ABOUT US

"Women Like silent men. They think they're listening"

"Women are always beautiful"

The word call LOVE

Just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to, doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.

well, it's romance time! I'll share a good movie about romance, that maybe could make your tears going out..

1st Movie that I'll recommend to you is "ONE DAY"

       
After one day together - July 15th, 1988, their college graduation - Emma Morley (Anne Hathway) and Dexter Mayhew (Jim Sturgess) begin a friendship that will last a lifetime.

She is a working-class girl of principle and ambition who dreams of making the world a better place. He is a wealthy charmer who dreams that the world will be his playground. For the next two decades, key moments of their relationship are experienced over several July 15ths in their lives.

Together and apart, we see Dex and Em through their friendship and fights, hopes and missed opportunities, laughter and tears. Somewhere along their journey, these two people realize that what they are searching and hoping for has been there for them all along. As the true meaning of that one day back in 1988 is revealed, they come to terms with the nature of love and life itself. -From One Day Official Web-

2nd Best Romance Movie is "A Walk To Remember"

         

3rd Movie is "P.S I love you" 

4th Movie is "The Time Traveler Wife"

5th Movie is "Notting Hill"

6th Movie is "Crazy Little Thing Called Love"

7th Movie is "Valentine's Day" 

8th Movie is "Love Actually"

9th Movie is "New Years Eve"

10th Movie is "Waiting for forever"

       That's all from me, ENJOY THE MOVIES GUYS!

Destiny, Love, Friends, Matter stuff, Japan, and Choices!

Hemm.. Titlenya banyak yaa? it was happen to me in one day...
I've just thinking about destiny, life and death..! we will never know about that.. yahh, maksudku this life is too short, there is something that I have to fix.. especially my relationship with him!.. I've try this hard.. I've try to fix him! fix you!, and it's work!... I don't wanna fall in love with you again.. I just want to be friend! I've just thinking that if a bad things happen to me or you, we are in a good relation as a friend, it will be nice.. it's really nice could do some short chat, having a joke with you, or disturbing you when you were too busy with your self.. I like it.. keep like that, ok?!

Matter stuff! this afternoon I took my Japanese class.. I don't know nothing about hiragana and all of it.. I mean, I am not that interesting to learn about it, but everytime I learn about something I've just thinking that my destiny will guide me to use this knowladge.. My sensei asked me to take a job in Japan, because of the number of sallary! it's about 20million rupiah, and your living cost at there just spend at least 4million rupiahs/month.. it's good, right? I mean you still have 16million rupiah left for your saving!.. BUT actually that's not my dream to work on japan! I just want to take a vacation at there..!! my dreams are to get an education on australia and europe!! and that will be my long life dream! :DD

            Life isn't just for find matter stuff such as money and how to be rich, life is made for make ur dreams get true and gripping world on ur hand!

Menikah, Impian, dan segala keribetannya!

     

  well, pikiran yang mengganggu anak berumur pertengahan 20tahun, pemilihan antara menikah muda dan berkarier..?! dua pilihan yang tidak mudah, maksudku jika kau memilih untuk menikah lebih cepat dari rencanamu, emangnya siap jadi istri? jadi ibu? atau kalau misalnya ternyata dia juga lagi membangun mimpinya, bisa gitu membagi 2 fokus antara mimpi2 dia dan mimpi2 saya? ah mana ku tahu, aku belum mencobanya dan merasakannya...

          Nah kalo saya serius ingin fokus ke karir saya, kalo ternyata saya diberi kesempatan mengenyam pendidikan yang lebih tinggi, banyak yang saya kuatirkan, mulai dari, apa ada laki-laki tidak rendah hatinya bila pendidikan saya lebih tinggi, sungguh tidak masalah buat saya sebenarnya kalau suami saya pendidikannya dibawah saya, kan bukan berarti saya lebih pintar atau dia lebih bodoh, TIDAK HARUS BEGITU!, saya yakin hal ini hanya masalah kesempatan.. tapi apa orang lain berpikir hal yang sama? tidak juga..jujur sekarang saja kayaknya kurang beruntung dalam persoalan yang membawa nama cinta, Halah.. tapi sungguh nih.. ah, saya bingung, belum ada yang cocok..!

         well, ini hal sepele yang cukup mengganggu aktivitas saya seharian loh... ARRGGHH bingung..:((
#envy abis gtu ngeliat org2 mampu nikah muda, #envy abis ngeliat org2 mampu berkomitmen serius, dan mengubah hidupnya dengan cepat, #envy abis sama temen gue yang menikah atas dasar mencintai pada pandangan pertama lwat ta'aruf, terus udah mampu jadi ibu dari twin baby yang ganteng ganteng! ah kok bisa yaa..? could I?